Hello stampers and happy Wednesday to you. Today’s post is not about cards. It’s about blessings new every morning. As you may know, I am in the Netherlands right now with Gerard for five weeks. Did you know that this was a very difficult decision for me? Why should you even care?
Leap of Faith
The reason it was so difficult for me to leave is that my Pap is 94 and in failing health. What kind of a daughter goes on an international flight during COVID in such a situation? Thankfully both Pap and Mom said, go, you cannot put your life on hold. I had to have faith that Pap was in God’s hands and that there is nothing I can do to change the number of his days. We have said everything that there needs to be said. I have peace because he is at perfect peace. He is ready to meet his heavenly Father. How amazing is that?
Blessings New Every Morning
I am one of four children. What I have seen now that I am gone is that my older sister is filling the void. She has stepped up what she does and how often she does it. She is finding her niche and it a beautiful to see. As you know, every child has a unique relationship with their parents. When one child leaves for university, it can really change the dynamics in the family. Same thing when an adult child leaves for another country. My sister is no longer in my shadow and it is wonderful to see that relationship flourish!
I have seen the same thing happen in church ministries. When you have certain gifts, you feel called to use them but sometimes life happens and you have to cut back on your commitments. What I have found though, is that when you step back it gives someone else an opportunity to step forward and that is a beautiful thing.
Update on Pap
Prayers are being answered and Pap is doing amazingly well. He still sleeps a lot, but in the morning he is in the kitchen before mom and even sets the table and makes the tea! He has a head start because she has first helped him with his toiletries, and then she has to take care of herself.
On Mother’s Day Pap went for a car ride and visited my sister for outdoor coffee and drinks and then stopped by the farm to see my brother and his wife. At the farm it was just a “drive by” visit but how wonderful for him to get out of the house and see all his kids. Imagine my joy when mom told me that Pap was able to get in and out of the tub all by himself! Mind you, this does change from day to day. The next day it was such an ordeal that Mom finally conceded that she should get help. Another blessing!!
Why did I share this?
The reason I shared these details with you is to encourage you to also step out in faith. If there is something that you wanted to do but you were holding back on because you felt like you couldn’t “let down” or disappoint the people around you, think again. It might be just what they need for their own personal growth.
I am going with Gerard to Friesland today. Friesland is the Dutch equivalent of Quebec. The Fries people are fiercely independent and have their own language that is so different from Dutch that I cannot understand it. Friesland is in the north of Holland, about a two hour drive. I will be sure to post pictures. Here is the quaint B&B we will be going to.
Thanks for joining me, I hope you have a super day!
Veel plezier in Fryslân.
Woudsend is een leuk dorpje in het Friese meren gebied, we zijn er vaak met de boot geweest.
Dank je wel. I love the real spelling of the province, thanks for sharing.
Thank you for sharing your story with us. It is so true and I appreciate hearing from you. I’m sure you are even more of a blessing to your family and loved ones than you know.
Thanks so very much Linda. Isn’t it true that we are often unaware of our affects or our role?
Jackie, I love how you share your personal story and your faith. I worked with Adriana for a short while at Groves. Great that she is now able to put her nursing skills to use for your parents.
Although I am not from Friesland ( I’m from Drenthe), I have spent lots of time there, as a number of my cousins live around Leuwarden and in Balk and Drachten.. It is so beautiful there, with all the waterways.
Thanks so much Ina. Adriana was always a very caring nurse. I’ll share your story with her! I have never been to Drenthe either but I hear it is also very beautiful.
Thank you for sharing your story! I enjoy reading them. May our Lord and Savior bless your Pap richly.
Barbee from Maple Valley, Washington, USA
Thanks so much Barbee. He has been blessed very richly indeed.
You dont know how much I needed to hear your message today. Those leaps are hard at times and not till after, sometimes much after, do we see its what we need (or needed) to do. God works in mysterious ways. Praying for your Dad … and your Mom … and you. It’s terribly hard when you see their health declining. Have a wonderful visit to Friesland x
Thanks so much for taking the time to comment Leonie. Friesland is so incredibly beautiful. Can’t wait to share the stories from here.